Don't Ever Give Up
Monday, March 1, 2010 @



For today, I shall touch on a sensitive and complicated topic

Love.


Love has many definitions
As a matter of fact, there's no exact definition at all.

It can also be expressed in many ways
Friends, Lovers, Family, Pets.

I shall express my own view on this complicated yet amazing quality
that all living creatures have.

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Couples like to spend special occasions together
getting presents for one another
very often, the guys treating the girls etc.

In a way, many of which are done in excessive.
Especially for teens, very often they revolve around money.

It sounds negative as I speak
But honestly, I feel that it is process of understanding and learning.

As they grow older and been through more
they will learn what it means to love.

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Very often television series show love in a dramatized way
some of us go crazy along with it
some of us just criticized it

But honestly, Love can go in many different ways
we often think that it's overly done and not realistic

However, have we ever noticed that these 'overly-done' affections
are actually shown when a relationship is in trouble?

I believed I've said this before As dramatic as things can get, they just happened.

It isn't something which can be helped.
In fact, it happens because in these occasions people make wrong decisions
the frustration and the desperate need for security results in 'dramatic' situations

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My view is that Love can be simple.
It ultimately goes down to how much you love and understand your partner.

During special occasions
I believe spending a few hours together by the beach chatting beats
more than what an expensive present can provide.

During times of trouble
It goes down to how much you understand your partner
to make the right decisions to solve the situation

Another important thing is also trust.
We don't really see our parents holding hands and mushy mushy that often right?
It's because they already have trust in one another
and that it lies in how much they love each other.
It's something they can feel in each other

Something invisible to others, yet visible to themselves.

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Many of us may do desperate things to hold on to someone
Maybe we should calm ourselves down
and think, is this really the right thing to do?

Being desperate may not mean you love, it just means you want.

It all goes down to your heart ultimately.
Because if you really love someone,
you can do so for years after years after years.

Do not force things, let them take a natural course
If it means to be, it will come.
If it means to go, let it go.

Love is different in my view.
It needs feeling and not thinking.

When you start thinking, it affects trust.
When you start thinking, it may show that you don't understand your partner.

Eventually when you finally love someone
you will know what is right to do.

You will know, to yourself, what Love really is.


Chung Yong Xi
13/05/1992
Taurus
INFP
MBS
TKSS
TP - Design
Interior Architecture and Design

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