Don't Ever Give Up
Wednesday, April 8, 2009 @ The ugly side
Hey peeps.


Nothing much to talk about. Except that i saw a scene while i was playing basketball near my house area.


How to describe it...
Ugly
Unglamorous
Most of all, i was disgusted and ashamed.
No, not people making out la... jokes aside.
I saw a married couple having some sort of a dispute.


It got really ugly when the man was hurting the wife physically.
He slapped and dragged her along the floor.
I had no idea what the dispute was about but even so, how can a man get so FUCKING PHYSICAL?! Especially to a woman!
All i saw was the wife being helpless, pleading the husband about something and he was swearing and dragging the wife because she was kneeling down the whole time.


For that... i feel disgusted. The ugly side of people.
Disputes can be resolved using peaceful methods, not so physical right?
Most of all, how can a man ever be so physical towards a woman.. that's unacceptable.


There were many others watching by the corners and side.
For that i really do feel ashamed. Not only because of them but also because of myself.
All i could do was to watch.
I had thoughts of going up to that man and just wanting to stop the fight.
But i couldn't do it. I was thinking, that if i were to step in, the husband who was already going very violent would even whack me.
Furthermore, he had gold hair and could possibly be linked to a gang or some sort. Eventually he could get people to whack me.
Yes, i sound like a coward and a loser. I agree. For that, I am ashamed of myself..
I couldn't do a thing even though the ugly sight was just right before my eyes..


The worst was that after the husband left the wife alone, i didn't even step up to see if she was alright. A group of girls went up to her to check on her.
Fuck.. Why didn't i even do such a simple thing..
Damn.
Maybe i shouldn't be saying so much because it had nothing to do with me.
But i just want to voice out that at times like this, maybe someone, or all of us should at least feel concerned.
We are all human beings, we can't just stand by the side and watch others being hurt.
Not saying that someone should be a hero, but at least, when the situation cools, we can all lend a helping hand and see if the victim need anything.


For that, i learnt a lesson today.
I am ashamed that i didn't do the least that i could have done.
I learn the importance of care and concern..


That's all... Ciao.

Chung Yong Xi
13/05/1992
Taurus
INFP
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TP - Design
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